American cities have been plagued by youth gangs since the late 1700's. Until recently, it was always the "other" cities that had gangs. Unfortunately, this attitude has allowed gangs to grow to epidemic proportions and become entrenched in our communities, requiring a large dedication of money and personnel to be directed toward the problems. When gang activity is occurring in our community, the entire community is the victim. Not only is it a waste of one of the most precious resources that we have - our children - it also drains the community resources that could be directed to improving the quality of life, not just protecting it.
But, with community involvement, parental awareness and commitment to prevention, we can make a difference for our children, and for ourselves.
What gang members do isn't kid stuff, and it's not a harmless phase that they are going through. Gang members steal and destroy property and commit many violent crimes. As parents, we need to know why our children are joining gangs, and the warnings signs that may indicate gang membership.
So Why Do Kids Join Gangs?
Because they have low self-esteem because they have a lack of identity; because they have a need to feel important; because they are seeking companionship or a sense of belonging; because they are looking for security; because they lack other positive alternative activities, like sports; because they lack parental involvement; because they succumb to peer pressure.
So What Are The Signals That May Indicate Gang Membership?
A change in the style of clothing worn or wearing one particular color; often withdrawing from the family; declining grades and poor school attendance; unexplained money or new possessions; tattoos that are affiliated with a gang or group; use of nicknames; graffiti on their personal things or on their clothing; contacts with the police. Remember, just because someone is on the threshold of joining a gang, or is aready in a gang, doesn't mean that it is too late to establish positive alternatives!
So What Can We Do?
Establish non-negotiable rules for your family regarding the use of alcohol, drugs, and gang membership establish clear guidelines and limits for your children's behavior and their activities; spend time with your children; do things with them and attend functions in which they are involved; respect your children's feelings and attitudes; help them to develop a strong sense of self-esteem; if you are unsure or are in a family crises, get to know your children's friends and acquaintances, become involved in your child's school, meet with the counselors and teachers educate yourself as much as you can about gangs and drugs.
Sheriff Carter is committed to serving you by providing a resource for any questions you may have concerning gang activity. If you suspect any gang activity or need further assistance in this area, please contact Sgt. R. Seydel, Gang Investigator, at 919-718-4563, ext. 5629 or via email at rseydel@leecountync.gov
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