Bullying among children is aggressive behavior that is intentional and involves an imbalance of power or strength. A child who is being bullied has a hard time defending him or herself. Usually bullying is repeated over time. Bullying can take many forms such as physical, verbal, emotional and cyber bullying.
Signs that your child might be bullied:
- torn clothes
- loss of appetite
- mood changes
- reluctance to go to school
- bruises or injuries that can't be explained
- no empathy for others
- a desire to be in control
- may be an arrogant and boastful winner and poor loser in competitive games
Lee County School's Anti-Bullying Policy (click here for the policy)The Lee County School District now has an Anti-Bullying Policy that prohibits bullying of or by any district student or employee. It is important that parents become familiar with the policy. For a copy of the policy or to ask any questions, please contact your child's school office or the assigned Sheriffs School Resource Officer (SRO).
What to do if you suspect your child is being bullied:Talk with your child. Be supportive and gather information about the bullying.
Report suspected bullying to your child's school or the assigned Sheriffs School Resource Officer (SRO).
What Parents Should Know About Cyber BullyingCyber bullying occurs when children or teens use the internet, cell phones or other devices to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass other children or teens. This can include sending mean, vulgar, or threatening messages or images; posting sensitive, private information about another person; or pretending to be someone else in order to make that person look bad. Children and teens can cyber bully each other through e-mails, instant messaging, text messages, web pages, blogs or chat rooms.
Tips to help prevent cyber bullying:
- keep your computer in easily viewable places
- talk regularly with your child about on-line activities that he or she is involved in
- tell your child that you may review his or her on-line communications if you think there is reason for concern
- consider installing parental control filtering software and/or tracking programs
- educate your child about the consequences of inappropriate use of his or her electronics, such as losing internet access or use of their cell phone
Tips for dealing with cyber bullying that your child has experienced:
- strongly encourage your child not to respond to the cyber bullying
- do not erase the messages or pictures (save these as evidence)
- try to identify the individual doing the cyber bullying
- consider filing a complaint with your service provider
- contact your child's school
- contact the police if cyber bullying involves acts such as threats of violence, extortion, obscene or harassing phone calls or text messages, harassment, stalking, hate crimes or child pornography